Why I Don’t Offer Financial Domination

Financial domination (findom) has exploded in popularity on platforms like Twitter and TikTok. And yes, it’s a real kink—some subs genuinely get off on sending money to their Domme without expecting anything in return. The findom subreddit has over 100k members, and I know ethical, experienced Dominatrices who practice consensual findom within strict boundaries.

But I don’t do it. Here’s why.

1. Feminism & Power Exchange Don’t Mix with Findom

As a dominant woman, I believe in mutual power exchange, not exploiting stereotypes. Many findommes push the idea that women are superior just for being women, and men should grovel with their wallets. That’s not my style. Feminism is about equality—not financial servitude based on gender.

Unless I have a deep D/s connection with a sub and a negotiated agreement, money play feels shady and one-sided. True BDSM requires trust, consent, and rules—not blind ATM worship.

2. Most “Findommes” Are Just Scammers

Let’s be real—social media findom is full of fakes. Many so-called “Dommes” have zero interest in BDSM, domination, or their subs’ pleasure. They’re just after quick cash with no real dynamic. That’s why findom gets a bad reputation—it’s seen as a scam, not real Femdom.

And I refuse to be part of that.

If you’re looking for authentic domination, I offer BDSM, humiliation, and mind control—not empty wallet draining. My subs serve me because they crave my control, not because some TikTok trend told them to.